A Reflection on the Year

It’s been a while since I’ve written anything like this. I’ve found that it’s much easier to bare my soul and my writing through lyrics and poems than it is to talk about myself or what I’m doing. So I’ve been doing a lot of that — writing lyrics and poems. Truthfully, I haven’t had anything prepared to post for the last several weeks, so maybe it’s serendipity or kismet that I take this time to actually write, from my perspective, on this past year.

It’s been a tough year for me in terms of writing. The book I started for National Writing Month last year has been under two rewrites since, with little success. I spent 6 months trying to make my first book perfect before it was published and mostly kept it close to my chest because I thought I could protect myself and my book if I just kept it to myself. Because writing may be hard, but sharing it with the world is infinitely harder, when you know other people will look at your book and point out all the things you could have or should have done. Ideas you’ve already thought of and ideas you kick yourself for not thinking of.

Child of Magick was released on Amazon with little fanfare, and to be honest, it didn’t feel quite like I imagined. There was no huge weight or pressure lifted, and only a small community of people were even interested in it. I need to do a better job of promoting if I’m going to be doing this self-publishing route. But I will say there was something about seeing my name printed, something about seeing my book formatted like so many of the ebooks I’ve read myself, that sent a tingle through my fingers and put a smile on my face. It reminded me why I love writing in the first place, being able to create worlds and stories and characters. To bring into existence something that wasn’t here before.

Child of Magick and its protagonist Zara had no planning, no major storyline drafted out when I first started writing, but I quickly fell in love with the world and her. A kick-ass girl willing to do anything for family and not willing to take anything from anyone’s. Zara was a joy to write, but as I continue on, I’m coming to realize that not all of my characters can be like that.

Writing is hard. I don’t think people say it enough. There are days I want nothing more than to curl up and forget writing, forget every idea in my head because they never measure up to how I picture it in my head. Sometimes the words fail my imagination. Or maybe I fail my imagination. But I read something that really blew me away, a comment on tumblr that essentially pointed out the reason I’m always so disappointed in my own work is because I have a certain image in my head, and when it comes out not exactly like I envisioned, I feel the wind just go right out of me. I’m comparing myself to the perfection I’ve created in my head, but nothing is ever perfect. I can only try to do the best I can.

So that’s what I’m going to do in 2019. I’m going to do the best I can with each and every one of my characters and their stories. They may not be perfect, but each one of my characters has a story to tell, and it breaks my heart when I think of giving up on them just because they aren’t perfect. Humans aren’t perfect, the world isn’t perfect, I’m not perfect. So they don’t have to be either.

I’m scared of what this new year might bring. But I’m also excitement to see what comes next. Hopefully lots more writing and lots more stories and adventures await. Happy New Year everyone! And best of luck for all our new endeavors.

Sometimes the World Swallows You Whole

November was such a busy month! Changes at work have meant fluctuations in my productivity. No excuses though. This just means I need to work harder.  My graphic designer for my first book also fell through, so the release of my book has been pushed back. I’ve recently found a new graphic designer, and I’m working with them now to create my cover, so I can finally get this sucker published. I can’t put in words how excited I am to share these characters and their journey. They were so wonderful to write, and they’ve brought a smile to my facce time and time again.

Additionally, of course, November meant National Writing Month, so I was buried in my second book. But I finished it! The first rough draft and 50,000 words written in 30 days. It was definitely more of a struggle than my first book. Revisions, when I finally get down to them, are going to be killer, I can already tell. But I’ve been trying to focus on just letting the words come out when I’m writing. No analyzing or overanalyzing. That way leads madness. Of course, this means I’ve been writing all over the place, my notes are a mess, and I’m hopping from scene to scene like a rabbit on drugs, but the words are coming. That’s the important thing.

I just have to keep trucking on. Hard to tell yourself it’ll be worth in when you’re knee-deep in what seems to be the worst thing you’ve ever written, but anyone sharing in that feeling can rest assured it will pass. Euphoria, despair, they’re both short-lived, and they both teach us something. Take any happiness while you can get it and let the despair only fuel you forward. That’s the only way I’m getting through these seemingly endless months. Don’t give up. And remember to make time for your writing! Your stories have  something to say, and it would be the greatest tragedy to let the world swallow them whole.

The beauty in the pain …

There is no greater joy and no greater frustration than writing. And creating a world is even more awe-inspiring and incredibly difficult. Like pull my own hair out this is so crazy hard. My current project involves fae and magical worlds alongside our own. It’s challenging in all the best ways, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t days I wish I had never thought of this idea. Of course, I’m kidding! I love my characters, and this world I’m creating with them. Like our own world, it’s complex and detailed and best of all, it never works out like I think it will. That’s one of the best things about writing I think; once you get going, your stories operate just like real life. You think you know where something is going, but then something shifts, your world reveals a secret, your characters catch you off-guard, and you get a little thrill because you didn’t see it coming. And I love that feeling!

Almost there!

I’m so excited to be publishing my first book soon! There’s no feeling quite like finishing something you’ve made and getting ready to share it with the world. Terrifying is actually the first word that comes to mind, but once I get past that, there’s much more joy and loads of relief because it feels like an accomplishment, something to be proud of. I can’t believe it took me ten years to overcome my fears and actually share some of my stuff with all of you.

If you’ll listen to a bit of advice, I would definitely say to start now. Don’t wait to share yourself and your work with the world. You have something to bring to the table. And you might get harsh feedback – it’s something we’ll get plenty familiar with over our lives. But even criticism – and here I mean criticism, not constructive criticism – can be used to grow. I got a lot of harsh criticism when I was younger, and it did stifle me for years. But that experience then helps me now to let go of things that don’t need to be held onto, to ignore the things that aren’t helpful and listen to the people who are. And it’s a pretty great feeling to be able to succeed in the face of people telling you that you can’t do something, to prove them and your doubts wrong. Maybe that’s why there’s so many rap songs about it.